The Courier
Volume 31, No. 1 (2007)
WESTERN MAINE SAINTS
[Part
3, continued]
A
Bethel Family (Frost): Nauvoo, England, and Back to Nauvoo
by Jayne W. Fife, with Roselyn
Kirk
Parley
P. Pratt home and store at Nauvoo, Illinois,
as it appeared in 1909.
Courtesy of Jayne Fife
Dramatically escaping from the Columbia, Missouri, Jail on 4 July 1839
with his brother Orson’s help, Parley immediately headed for Mary in
Quincy, Illinois. Having been informed of his escape, she kept
the table set for five days and nights, and a candle burning in the
window. She agonized that he had been recaptured, but on the
fifth night she heard a sound at the door and there he stood. She
flew into his arms—both weeping tears of joy and relief. At this
point, they were devoted to each other, their love made bright by the
agony of suffering and separation. How then did they move through
a slippery slope in their relationship so that a little more than six
years later—after the birth of three more children—they became
alienated from one another, with Mary refusing to accompany Parley on
his westward trek?
In early July 1839, Parley wrote that he spent his first days of
liberty in “the enjoyment of the society of family and
friends.... After a few days spent in this way, we removed to
Nauvoo, a new town about fifty miles above Quincy.... It had been
appointed as a gathering place for the scattered Saints and many
families were on the ground, living in the open air, or under the shade
of trees, tents, wagons, etc., while others occupied a few old
buildings, which had been purchased or rented.” Additional
members had settled in abandoned log buildings on the opposite side of
the Mississippi, in a place called Montrose, that had formerly served
as a barracks for soldiers.
Parley and Apostle Heber C. Kimball cut logs and each built a small
cabin on five acres of wilderness purchased from a local
landowner. On 21 July, Mary wrote to her parents in Bethel,
Maine: “Our healths are good, the children grow and are very play ful.
I hope you will not give your selfs [sic] so much trouble about us as
you have done. I presume you have more trouble about us than we
have for ourselves. These light afflictions which are but for a
moment will work out for us a far more exceeding [sic] and Eternal wait
of glory. I have our oxen and Cows, the Lord has blest us.”
She again suggests they come west and concludes with “it is towards eve
and I must attend to my little babes.”
By August 29, there was a big change in plans. Parley, along with
brother Orson and Hiram Clark, left Nauvoo to join other apostles on a
mission to England. Mary, her two children, Mary Ann (age six)
and Nathan (age one), as well as two and a half-year old Parley, Jr.
(retrieved from a woman who had cared for him since the death of his
mother), accompanied the three missionaries in a two-horse-drawn
carriage. They were headed for New York City, where other
missionaries were gathering to sail for England. After visiting
Parley’s parents in Detroit, they sold the horses and carriage and
steamed down Lake Erie to Buffalo, then the Erie Canal to Albany, and
finally down the Hudson River to New York City—a journey of 1400
miles. Mary Ann later remembered that they first traveled over
“flower decked prairies. Best of all we were free and happy—not
afraid of mobs and violence—in a land of friendliness, meeting sympathy
at every hand.
On 9 March 1840, Parley sailed for Liverpool, England, with Apostles
Brigham Young, Heber C. Kimball and Orson Pratt, as well as two
others. Parley wrote in his journal, “We were accompanied to the
water by my family, and by scores of the congregation.... We bade
them farewell amid many tears, and taking a little boat were soon on
board ship—which lay at anchor a short distance from the shore.”
Mary and children traveled on to Bethel to visit her parents, returning
later to New York to conduct Parley’s book selling business, including
the collection of money already owed.
On 6 April 1840, Parley penned a letter to Mary giving her advice about
preparing to join him by June or July. He wrote, “Here is a
boundless harvest for the next 15 or 20 years...if the Lord will I
expect to spend five or ten years at least.” He continued, “I
wish you as soon as you get this letter, to sell every thing except
beding [sic] and wearing apparel and fill two chests and a trunk and
get ready to come to England the first opportunity.” He advised
her to collect what was due on books and pay the printer. “Do not
let the Books go without pay in and, for they cost me much money and I
owe for them; and I need the remainder after the debt is paid, to
support my family.” If this plan didn’t work out, he suggested
she borrow money from “some good friend.... Courage Mrs. Pratt,
you have performed more difficult journeys than this, and if you will
take hold with Courage the Lord will bless and prosper you and our
Little ones and Bring you over in Safety.”
In England, Parley’s major assignments were to edit and publish a
monthly periodical, as well as a hymn book and the
Book of Mormon. Brigham Young
had borrowed 350 British pounds from two converts to finance the
printing of 2000
Millennial Star
periodicals, 3000 hymn books and 5000
Books
of Mormon. While attending a general church conference in
Manchester on 6 July 1840, Parley was given a letter from Mary
informing him that the children were seriously ill with scarlet
fever. He wrote back to her, “Behold your Letter comes with the
sad news of your Sickness; and that you are not coming.
This is more than I can bear. Here I must live alone, my Chamber
desolate. And you still confined at home where I Could assist and
comfort you and aid you continually in the care of the little ones, if
I only had them here.... Why must we live separate? Why
must I forever be deprived of your Society and my dear little
Children? I cannot endure it.” He ended by writing that he had no
prospect of coming to America for years.
Then conditions changed. His colleagues, knowing that he was
slated to remain in England for several years as editor and publisher,
decided he should go back to the United States and return with his
family. Brigham Young gave Parley 60 British pounds to cover the
cost. By the time he arrived in New York, Mary and the children
had recovered. And before they set sail for England, they
journeyed to Maine to visit Mary’s family. An unusual experience
occurred before the arrival of the Pratt family in Maine. Mary’s
sister, Lucretia Bean, told her family one day that Parley and his
family would arrive at their home the next evening. In response,
the next day, she changed the bedding in the best room. Her
family laughed at her. They reminded her that Parley was in
England and Mary in New York, but just as they were preparing for bed,
the Pratts knocked on their door. As a gift, they presented a
quilt that Parley had brought from England. It is now at the
Bethel Historical Society.
Handmade Adam and
Eve Quilt given by Parley P. Pratt and Mary Ann (Frost) Pratt
to her sister, Lucretia (Frost) Bean, and husband Samuel R. Bean in
1840.
Presented to Bethel Historical Society by Polly Ann Johnston in 2002
When they left, they took Mary’s sister Olive, age 24, with them to
help care for the children. She had recently been baptized.
They arrived in Manchester, England, in October. Their home at 47
Oxford Street became a meeting and lodging place for those coming and
going to preach the Gospel. Parley resumed his editorship and
publishing duties, and also presided over the Church in Great
Britain. Mary and Olive helped in the office and assumed some
missionary responsibilities.
In a letter to Church leaders in Nauvoo just after the first British
edition of the
Book of Mormon
was published in 1841, Parley wrote, “The work is increasing in every
step. I t is now prospering in Ireland and Wales, as well as in
Scotland and England.” Although he missed the Saints in Nauvoo,
he wrote, “I can truly say that I was never more contented, or more
happy than of late.”
On 2 April 1841, at a conference held in Manchester, it was reported
that there were now 8,000 to 9,000 converts—5000 just in the last
year. A thousand new members had already immigrated to the United
States. Passage costs were from 3 pounds, 15 shillings to 4
pounds, including provisions. Passengers were to take their own
bedding and cooking utensils. All their luggage was free.
On arrival in New Orleans, a passage up the Mississippi River—fifteen
hundred miles by steamboat—cost 15 shillings, freight free.
In June 1841, Olivia Thankful Pratt was born and named after her aunt,
Olive, and Parley’s first wife, Thankful. In 1842, the Pratts
moved to Liverpool to supervise the emigration process more
closely. Then, on 29 October 1842, they themselves left with 250
converts for Nauvoo. It was a challenging journey with
“difficulties, murmurings and rebellions.” Parley wrote, “We then
humbled ourselves and called the Lord, and he sent us a fair wind and
brought us into port in time to save us from starvation. Daughter
Mary Ann reported that water was so scarce that she learned to “take a
bath in a teacup.”
They arrived at the mouth of the Mississippi on 1 January 1843, where
they transferred to a steam-powered tugboat for the 100 mile journey to
New Orleans. From there, a chartered steamboat carried immigrants
to St. Louis, dropping off the Pratt family at Chester, Illinois, about
80 miles south of St. Louis, where they rented the bottom portion of an
old warehouse as they waited for the river to open up to Nauvoo.
Parley had been threatened with arrest if he should be caught on
Missouri soil.
Near the middle of March, they took a steamer to St. Louis, gathered
their group of immigrants, and boarded a small steamboat for the final
300 miles to Nauvoo. Unfortunately, they had to wait several more
weeks before the ice on the river was sufficiently broken up to travel
north. Finally starting, it took them two more weeks. Mary
gave birth to a daughter, Susan, on the little steamboat full of
converts on 5 April. They arrived at Nauvoo at 5 p.m. on 12
April. The Prophet met their boat and invited Parley, Mary and
the baby to his home. Olive and the older children went to Patty
Bartlett Sessions’ home.
On 15 April, Parley wrote in an article for the local newspaper, “I had
been absent about three years and half during which all the
improvements had been made and that by a people almost without
means. Judge my feelings then, in riding through a regular town,
for some three or four miles, with streets opened, lots fenced out and
buildings almost innumerable, many of them were neatly built of frame
or brick. I gaze, I wondered, I admired. I could hardly
refrain from tears.”
In late June, Aaron and Susan Frost, Mary’s parents, arrived from
Bethel, Maine, with their daughters, Sophronia and Huldah, all now
members. Aaron, a skilled carpenter, began work on the Pratt’s
new home, eventually laying the floors, building the stairs and
fashioning the woodwork with the assistance of an English builder and
carpenter, Nicholas Silcock, who had recently arrived with the
Pratts. The large, two-story, nine-room home, which included a
store, was built of red brick with stone window caps and sills which
trimmed the 27 large windows [see photo, above]. Four-foot-square
stone pillars supported a stone cornice at the entrance. There
was a deep cellar in the basement. It was considered one of the
finest homes in Nauvoo. It still exists on the southeast corner
of Young and Wells Street, with significant revisions implemented by
the Catholic Church that bought the property after the Nauvoo
exodus. Mary Ann later wrote, “Before the roof was quite finished
we commenced moving in and kept going from one part to the other until
it was all completed.” The now large family had been living in a
one room cabin across the street.
Shortly after their arrival, Joseph Smith discussed the relatively new
plural marriage principle with Parley, which included the concept of
marriage for Time and All Eternity, not just Time. Joseph’s
restoration of ancient Church doctrine included the renewing of the
traditions of Abraham and Solomon, who, he said, were commanded by God
to marry plurally. He had introduced, with varying degrees of
acceptance, this principle to selected leaders during the Pratt’s
absence. Joseph had already chosen Elizabeth Brotherton, an
English convert, to be Parley’s plural wife. Before finalizing
the arrangements, he had to leave Nauvoo to visit relatives, leaving
Parley and Mary to struggle with this new concept. According to
Pratt family history, Parley begged Joseph before he left to not insist
on his entering a polygamous marriage, but the Prophet was adamant,
saying it was his duty to be an example to other leaders. He was
told to pray about it. In a dream, his first wife, Thankful, came
to hm and indicated that by having more wives, he would be adding to
his stature in the next world, and she would be over the other wives,
thus elevating her stature as well.
Mary “raged” about plural marriage, but not the sealing of couples for
Time and All Eternity. After praying, she reported that “the
devil had been in me until within a few days past, the Lord had shown
it (plural marriage) is all right.” In the meantime, Joseph Smith
had been arrested by two deputies from the Missouri governor for the
reinstatement of the 1838/39 charges of treason. He had
previously escaped Liberty Jail with the seeming complicity of his
guards “who felt him innocent...which he was...but the vengeful
governor wanted him back.”
On 24 July 1843, Hyrum Smith, recently given authority by Joseph to
perform celestial marriages, sealed Parley to his first wife, Thankful,
with Mary as a proxy. Then Mary was sealed and finally she “gave”
(a term signifying a wife’s acceptance), to Parley, twenty-six-year-old
Elizabeth Brotherton as his plural wife. She had no idea of the
impact of the new arrangement.
Little Nathan Pratt, age five years and four months, died 21 December
1843 of “fever on the brain.” He was buried in the yard near the
south fence of the Pratt home just seven months after the family
returned to Nauvoo. Parley wrote a very poignant elegy to his son.
In the spring, Parley and other church leaders left to proselyte and
electioneer for Joseph’s candidacy for President of the United
States. Joseph’s decision to run was partly due to President Van
Buren’s refusal to help Church members obtain compensation for the
violation of their rights as American citizens and the seizure of their
extensively developed land two times in Missouri. He informed
church representatives, “Your cause is just, but I can do nothing for
you.”
On 27 June 1844, Joseph and Hyrum Smith were murdered in the Carthage
Jail. They, and the citizens of Nauvoo, had been promised
protection by the governor of Illinois if they surrendered willingly,
which they did. The charges made against them were later proven
illegal, as other charges against them over the years always had been.
The night of the June 29 funeral, the people of Nauvoo were horrified
by the appearance of a mob gathering a short distance away with the
intent of terrorizing them and destroying the city. Parley and
many of the leaders were away. The available men had few weapons
to protect the city because Governor Thomas Ford had forced the people
to surrender their weapons to his army when Joseph and Hyrum
surrendered in Carthage. Now, the Governor and his army were
nowhere in sight. Mary and her children, plus other neighborhood
women and their children, huddled together in her large cellar
room. They were certain that the horrific agony they had
experienced five years previously in Missouri was about to be
repeated. Then, they had been driven into the freezing
countryside in the middle of winter after having been robbed, beaten,
women abused, crops and homes destroyed and some killed. Young
Mary Ann later recorded that her Mother softly said, “If we have to be
killed, let us all die together.”
One woman later wrote about a drum beat that penetrated the night,
“Every blow seemed to strike to my heart...the women...were weeping and
praying.” Near midnight, there was a sudden flash of lightening
and a crash of thunder, followed by a violent storm. Amazingly,
the mob dispersed.
Amidst all the tumult of that time, little daughter Susan, aged one
year five and one half months, died of disease of the bowels on 28
August and was buried next to her brother who had died just eight
months before. Mary’s sister Sophronia had died in May. The
murder of Joseph and Hyrum had also taken their toll on Mary.
On 9 September, twelve days after Susan’s death, Parley took his fourth
wife (second plural wife), Mary Wood. Mary Pratt did not
participate in this marriage as before, so she may not have been aware
of it. For whatever reason, Mary was not present at any of
Parley’s marriages other than that of Elizabeth Brotherton. Could
Parley have decided that Thankful Halsey Pratt held the position of
“first wife” even though she was deceased and he therefore did not
require Mary’s approval and participation? Although the approval
of the first wife was common in Nauvoo, it was not firmly established
by Brigham Young until the arrival in the Salt Lake valley.
In November 1844, Parley married twice more and took his new
wife, Belinda Marden, with him on a mission to New York. Mary
gave birth to her last child, Moroni, six days after he left.
About a week later, she received a letter from Parley. He wrote,
“I never left home with more intense feelings, nor under more trying
circumstances than present, except the time I went to prison and to
death leaving you sick of a fever with a babe three months old and to
the mercy of savages and scarce shelter or food. I was sorry to
go and your tears quite overcame me. But I tore myself away and
here I am. And where I hope to go I hope you will soon be
also. I shall then be happy; so cheer up. The time will
soon pass with you, surrounded as you are with Mother, children, and
friends. But with me it is far different. I not only have
to part with one but all. Time drags slowly and solitude is
sickening to me....” Tellingly, there was no mention of
Belinda—only solitude.
After eight and a half months, Parley and Belinda returned. She
later wrote, I “went to Mr. Bench’s tavern to board while Parley went
home. After a little time, it was arranged for his wife Mary
(Wood) and me to commence keeping house in a room upstairs in Mr.
Pratt’s house.”
This was a tumultuous time in Nauvoo. As early as the winter of
1844, Joseph Smith had begun plans to search for an additional
gathering place in the West. In September 1845, church enemies
set fires to settlements surrounding Nauvoo, causing refugees to stream
into the city. Parley was active in planning for the
exodus. At the General Council meeting he provided a list of
necessary items for a family of five to cross the plains. In
early October, a formal government document called the Quincy
Convention demanded that the
Saints leave Nauvoo by May 1846. Earlier, on 6 October 1845, at
the first conference held in the Nauvoo Temple, those attending were
given instructions for a spring departure. Several companies were
also
organized.
[to be continued]
The Courier
Volume 31, No. 2 (2007)
WESTERN MAINE SAINTS
[Part
3, continued]
A
Bethel Family (Frost): Nauvoo, England, and Back to Nauvoo
by Jayne W. Fife, with Roselyn
Kirk